Five Finger Prayer

Since children are very tactile, teaching them through touch and movement is a great way to help them learn. This can also be done when teaching them to pray! 

One of my favorite ways to do this is with the Five Finger Prayer! There are several versions of this one, but here is the one I like:

• Simply start with a salutation (the thumb) such as, "Dear God" or "Loving God."
• Then, for the index finger, say "I'm sorry for . . . . " This is a very basic method to begin teaching children about confession and forgiveness of sins.
• For the middle finger, children should say thank you to God! "Thanks you for my family," "Thank you for my friends," Thank you for food, toys, or pets," are some common ways kids like to finish this sentence. 
• When you get to the ring finger, it's time to ask God to help others. "Please help a sick family member or friend" and "Please help homeless people," are some I hear frequently when I do this with children. 
• Of course, the pinky finger comes next! Use this one to ask God for personal help. "Help me be nice to my sibling," "Help be do my best in school," or even "Help me keep my undies dry at night!" will work here. 
• Finally, close your fingers around the palm of your hand or press your palms together and say "Amen!" 

One super cute thing I've done with this is to let children make a place-mat with their handprint. I typed out the phrase for each finger and left a space for children to put their handprint on the side. It looks like this:

You could also do this by tracing the hand and writing the phrases "on the fingers" as it is in the graphic above. It can then be laminated and used at the table for mealtime prayers or kept under a pillow for bedtime prayers. It  makes a cute keepsake, too!  

Have you every used the Five Finger Prayer??

(Psst . .  It works for adults, too!)

Beach Ball Prayers

One of my favorite places to go is to the beach!! Lots of families in our congregation spend time at the beach over the summer and through out the year as well. In the spirit of summertime, I included these three ways to pray with a beach ball in the summer devotional we created for families in our congregation and preschool. 

Who knew you could pray with a beach ball? What a fun, interactive way to get kids engaged! 

"Thank you" prayer toss - This one is super easy! You simply toss the beach ball back and forth (or around a circle). When you catch the ball, say "Thank you God for . . . . . ." Then, toss the ball to someone else. Repeat as many times as you like! 

Beach Ball Psalms - Write the following verses on the sections of a beach ball with a permanent marker. Toss the ball to one another and say the verse your thumb lands near! 

• Psalm 23:1 - "The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want." 
• Psalm 106:1 - " O give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; for his steadfast love endures forever"
• Psalm 139:14 - " . . .I am fearfully and wonderfully made.Wonderful are your works"
• Psalm 67:1 - "May God be gracious to us and bless us and make his face to shine upon us"
• Psalm 145:8 - "The Lord is gracious and merciful, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love"
• Psalm 51:10 - "Create in me a clean heart, O God, and put a new and right spirit within me."

Pray the colors of the ball -  

Red: Pray for someone who is hurt, sick, or sad

Blue: Thank god for water in the ocean and in the pool to keep us cool!

White: Pray for peace in the world and/or your community.

Yellow: Thank God for the sun and the stars in the sky.

Orange:  Pray for God to help you with something you are worried about.

Green: Thank God for the grass, the trees, and all the creatures he created.

Purple: Thanks God for the special people in your life like family, friends, and teachers

What other ways can you think of to use a beach ball while you pray? 

Mealtime Prayer Box

Knowing that prayer is a key component to a healthy spiritual life, it is important that we begin to teach our children early. One of the most frequent and routine opportunities to incorporate a a family prayer practice is by saying mealtime prayers.

"God is great, God is good. Let us thank Him for our food." Everyone knows that one, right?

While I believe there is nothing wring with memorization and recitation, it can become boring when we recite the same thing over and over. Therefore, it loses some of its meaningfulness. 

At my house, my youngest daughter (age 10) is usually the one who recites our mealtime prayer because her older sisters are far too old and mature for that! 😉 However, even she often sighs and mumbles because, after reciting the same blessing many, many times, she is getting a little tired of it. 

So, here is an idea to keep your mealtime prayer practice from becoming stale and mundane - create a mealtime prayer jar! It's is a super simple thing that might just jazz up your family dinnertime prayers! 

Simply take and empty, clean jar. Any shape or size will do. A box works great as well! Then, paint it, decorate with stickers or markers - whatever you want! Last, print the below pdf and cut apart each of the 25 short, sweet mealtime prayers. (Or create your own) Each night, when you gather at the table, pull one out an read it. Everyone at the table can read one or you can just choose one person to be the reader for that evening. You could even make a jar for each person around your table! Whatever works of you family is fine - there really aren't any rules! 

I hope this idea works for you and that your family enjoys this simple prayer practice! 

Teaching Children To Pray: Body Prayer

I truly believe prayer is central to a healthy, strong spiritual life. However, I also admit that prayer is an area of my own spiritual life that could use some improvement. As I continue to grow in this area, I am learning that prayer can take many different forms. It doesn't always have to be an eloquently scripted Psalm, but it also shouldn't always just be a "Help me!" shouted in desperation. Although both of those methods are perfectly acceptable, there are a lot of other styles that fall somewhere in between.

Like many skills, I think the earlier we start teaching children to pray, the more natural it will be for them as they grow in spirituality. However, we have to teach them in ways they can grasp and absorb in their youthfulness. Since young children often struggle to sit still, why not give them a prayer that lets them move their bodies??

This is a whole body prayer that I use in preschool chapel with 3-5 year olds. We started it at our first chapel sessions this school year when the lesson was about Hannah praying. I said it (along with the motions) and they repeated after me. They really liked it, so I decided to keep doing it. We have closed every chapel with it this year and, now, the children know it by heart. In fact, they frequently jump up and start reciting it with motions as soon as I say, "Let's do our body prayer!". I even used it in a Sunday children's message and got the whole congregation to participate from a sitting position! 

Like most things in life, what works for some might not work for others. Using this body prayer might not be a great fit for everyone, but it is a great way to show children that prayer comes in many different forms. Give it a try with your little ones! 

We were doing this body prayer in this photo! 

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